Optimal TB 1.3-1.4 PHP-FPM settings

[Joint Systems]

When altering the php7.4 php-fpm presets for use with TB 1.3 and 1.4 are there any particular recomendations, beyond the general requirements?  So far based on the logs 5 children is inadequate and had to raise that to 500 but according to the hosting company the server is using a PHP handler LSPl so changing the settings does nothing.   Currently the server we are using is a dual Xeon Silver 4208 (3.2GHz) with 64 GB DDR4 ram and 2 TB SSD.   

Edited January 9, 2022 by Joint Systems
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